Maybe life isn’t meant to be curated.

  cu·rate2 ˌkyo͝oˈrāt,ˈkyo͝oˌrāt/ verb past tense: curated;  select, organize, and look after the items . select the performers or performances that will be featured. select, organize, and present, typically using professional or expert knowledge. Think about this for a second. How much are we willing to share with those around us – including those that are…

The journey to pursuit.

A couple of weeks ago, I wasn’t sure what it was… Maybe the rain – getting past this season of healing – new rhythms – but it had just all flooded in and I was feeling heaaaaavy. Like wanted to just crawl in a hole and wait for sunshine kind of funk. Have you ever…

Full time everything.

How are you supposed to be a full time spouse – a full time parent – a full time career doer – or a full time (fill in the blank for whatever else!) … You just try. & then you repeat to yourself: “You are not a perfect human. And there is no one else around…

When Finnwish says, “Mom let’s make a bakery!”

… you make a bakery. I think motherhood is one part mess making, one part mess cleaning up, and one part making little moments where it feels like your child’s dreams come true. Finn couldn’t even believe that 1. we happened to have all of the things to make cookies, (shout out to Aunt Liz…

You’re going to be okay.

There’s no sign of a heartbeat. I’m so sorry for your loss. This isn’t a viable pregnancy. What would you like to do with the tissue? These are all things I never thought I’d have to hear someone say to me.  This is more common than you think. Let’s get the procedure scheduled and you…